The Conversation Test
After a long day walking around the mall i met shawn for coffee and out of the blue he made a comment about me having a boyfriend. "That's so cool, you have a boyfriend" were his exact words. It's funny 'cause that immediately made me realize that me and Chris have been together for almost two months. Wow you say, almost two months. But that's a lot for me considering that two months and a half ago i was a cold hearted bitch who wanted to bnecome a lesbian and possibly murder all ex-boyfriends, flings and fancies i had in the past twenty one years. Not Bad.
The conversation followed by me saying that everything is as perfect as it can get. Yet, sometimes i find myself wanting some drama. You know, drama..."i hate you...I love you...i don't wanna see you ever again...don't ever leave me" kinda drama. I find that some drama is not bad. It actually adds to the relationship. I said "some drama", which is, of course, not the whole soapopera kinda drama.
Me and Chris spent a great afternoon together. Went to a buffet and talked about random stuff. Yes, that's right...we talked. I told shawn that Chris is passing one of my main tests which is the "conversation test". Let me explain. Most of the boyfrineds i've had were never really the talking kind. No, i'm lying. In most of my past relationships i can't remember me and my exes spending a whole afternoon together talking. Talking is one of the main "traits" of a friendship, right? Right. And Friendship is, in my opinion one of the main things in a relationship. There you go. All i meant to say is that, yes, there are some silent moments but i don't feel uncomfortable and looking out the window to comment on the weather. Yet, most of the time we just talk and that's cool 'cause that means he is not only my boyfriend but also my friend. I'm starting to sound like a retard.
I also met his sister and she is pretty cool. Chris told me that she liked me. Okay, next step is his mom. Yes, i'm bound to meet his mom pretty soon. Scary, eh? I'm certainly shitting on my pants.
Chris started blogging a couple of days ago but we decided not to show each other our blogs 'cause if we do i can't write stuff about him or anything that has to do with him. No, that can't happen. Yes, i'm very curious to read his blog, maybe i'll find it one day. And yes, i've tried google.
I'm on spring break right now...can't wait till summer.
The conversation followed by me saying that everything is as perfect as it can get. Yet, sometimes i find myself wanting some drama. You know, drama..."i hate you...I love you...i don't wanna see you ever again...don't ever leave me" kinda drama. I find that some drama is not bad. It actually adds to the relationship. I said "some drama", which is, of course, not the whole soapopera kinda drama.
Me and Chris spent a great afternoon together. Went to a buffet and talked about random stuff. Yes, that's right...we talked. I told shawn that Chris is passing one of my main tests which is the "conversation test". Let me explain. Most of the boyfrineds i've had were never really the talking kind. No, i'm lying. In most of my past relationships i can't remember me and my exes spending a whole afternoon together talking. Talking is one of the main "traits" of a friendship, right? Right. And Friendship is, in my opinion one of the main things in a relationship. There you go. All i meant to say is that, yes, there are some silent moments but i don't feel uncomfortable and looking out the window to comment on the weather. Yet, most of the time we just talk and that's cool 'cause that means he is not only my boyfriend but also my friend. I'm starting to sound like a retard.
I also met his sister and she is pretty cool. Chris told me that she liked me. Okay, next step is his mom. Yes, i'm bound to meet his mom pretty soon. Scary, eh? I'm certainly shitting on my pants.
Chris started blogging a couple of days ago but we decided not to show each other our blogs 'cause if we do i can't write stuff about him or anything that has to do with him. No, that can't happen. Yes, i'm very curious to read his blog, maybe i'll find it one day. And yes, i've tried google.
I'm on spring break right now...can't wait till summer.
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